No. In both cases the problem is similar, which is that the transition densities might depend on some other information than the value of $X_t$.
For a simple example, call $\mathfrak F_t$ the sigma-algebra of the events before time $t$, and $Y_t$ the last state visited before $X_t$. More precisely, let $Y_t=X_{D_t^-}$, where $D_t=\sup\{s\leqslant t\mid X_{s}\ne X_t\}$. Assume that
$$
\mathbb P(X_{t+h}=i\mid X_t=i,Y_t=k,\mathfrak F_t)=1-r_{ii}^k(t)h+o(h).
$$
Then the assertion in the question hold, where $r_{ii}(t)$ is some linear combination of the coefficients $(r_{ii}^k(t))_k$ but, as soon as $r_{ii}^k(t)$ does depend on $k$, $(X_t)_t$ is not Markov anymore.
The question about exponentially distributed sojourn times can only make sense when $r_{ii}(t)$ and $r_{ij}(t)$ do not depend on $t$. Even in this case, in the example given above, the sojourn time at $i$, conditionally on the previous state visited being $k$ is exponentially distributed with parameter $r_{ii}^k$, but the sojourn time at $i$ is not exponentially distributed.