As a reference, consider Bak and Newman, Theorem 13.17, which I summarize here.
Essentially, you need to prove that all automorphisms of the upper half-plane are of the form $$f(z) = \frac{az+b}{cz+d}, ad-bc > 0, a,b,c,d \in \mathbb{R}.$$
It is easy to see that if $z$ is real-valued, then so too must be $f$.
Next, using $\textrm{Im} z = \frac{z-\overline{z}}{2i}$, we have
$$\textrm{Im}(f(z)) = \frac{ad-bc}{c^2+d^2} > 0,$$
so $f$ must map $i$ into the upper half-plane. This is sufficient to show that $f$ is an automorphism of the upper half-plane.
To show uniqueness, consider an automorphism from the upper half-plane onto the unit disc:
$$g(z) = e^{i\theta}\left(\frac{z-\alpha}{1-\overline{\alpha}z}\right), |\alpha| < 1$$
and consider the most basic automorphism, just discovered,
$$h(z) = \frac{z-i}{z+i}.$$
Then, $h^{-1} \circ g \circ h$ is an automorphism of the upper-half plane (this is a very trivial lemma).
Simply carrying out the arithmetic, and you will find that any automorphism of the upper half-plane must be of the desired form.