Cantor proved that $|\Bbb R|>|\Bbb N|$. He later proved that $|\Bbb R|=|\Bbb R^n|$, for any natural number $n>0$. Setting $n=2$ we have a natural bijection between $\Bbb R^2$ and $\Bbb C$, therefore this concludes that $|\Bbb R|$ and $|\Bbb C|$ are the same.
Cantor proved, at the same time, that $|\Bbb R|=|\mathcal P(\Bbb N)|$, where $\mathcal P$ denotes the power set operation. If we continue over the course of history, Cantor proved that $$|\Bbb R|=2^{\aleph_0}.$$
On the other hand, $\aleph_1$ is defined to be least cardinality which is larger than $\aleph_0$, and $\aleph_2$ is the least cardinality larger than $\aleph_1$. Cantor tried to prove that $2^{\aleph_0}=\aleph_1$, it was his conjecture for years before even writing the $\aleph$ symbols. But as it turns out, this statement - from the basic axioms of set theory - cannot be proved, nor disproved.
It is important to point out two prominent mistakes in your post:
The first is the arbitrary use of $\aleph$ number, which is sadly enough not uncommon. The common misconception that $\aleph_1$ is defined as the cardinality of the real numbers. This leads to even stranger claims, like $\aleph_2$ being the cardinality of the complex numbers.
I am not scolding you, I am just pointing these mistakes which are grave and common.
Assuming the axiom of choice, of course, every set can be well-ordered. This means that there is some linear order $\prec$ on the set $\Bbb R$ such that $(\Bbb R,\prec)$ is well-ordered. This well-ordering has absolutely nothing to do with the natural order of the real numbers. Most people feel that there should be some compatibility between $\prec$ and $<$, and therefore become surprised when they are told that the axiom of choice implies that such well-order exists.
Cardinality is what we have when we strip the sets of any structures they may have. So the "density" of the order of $<$ and the well-ordering of ordinals have little to do with the fact that $\Bbb R$ is equipotent with some ordinals.