I am a guy (x) who knows four other guys (y,z,v,w) and five women (a,b,c,d,e). On a given day, we all speak to another person with probability $p$. On a given day, how many girls I either speak with directly or I spoke with someone (boy or girl) who also spoke to her?
This is what I have done. I spoke with 2.5 women in expectation and 2 guys. I do not know how to add the women those guys spoke with that I did not, and the women that the women I spoke with spoke with, adjusting for the fact that they could be the same.
Okay tried again: if women do not know each other, the answer is that I know one woman with probability $p$+ I do not know her $1-p$, so
$p+p(1-q)+p(1-q)^2+p(1-p)^3+p(1-p)^4$
yet this answer is not completely good because women know each other with probability $p$.