According to my book:
R = {(1,2), (2,3), (1,3), (2,1)} is not transitive because (1,1) and (2,2) are missing. I don't see why (1,1) & (2,2) would be relevant here since aRb and bRc => aRc has been fulfilled.
According to my book #2:
R = {(1,1), (2,2), (3,3)}
Is both symmetric and transitive. How is it transitive?