Before pointing out a flaw in intuition, let me show an example of where intuition is right: Suppose we want to, formally, find a length of a curve, say an elliptic arc. An (intuitively) good idea is to approximate the curve with series of line segments with endpoints on the curve. We know (by intuitive extension of triangle inequality) that the length of the curve will be greater than sum of lengths of these segments, but at the same time we should be able to get this approximation as close to the true value as we like. So we will expect this length to be the least upper bound of all lengths of these line-segment-approximations. Turns out, this works for great majority of curves we work with in practice.
Now, suppose we want to do the same trick with approximating surface area. Instead of taking line segments, we could divide the surface into triangles and look at sum of their areas, and take supremum again. Should work just as well, right? The only problem is - it doesn't really work. The problem arises with quite simple example, namely with a circular cylinder. It can be shown that these triangular approximations can lead to arbitrarily large finite area, so with that we would have that simple cylinder would have infinite area, which it (obviously?) doesn't! This is known as Schwarz's paradox, and in my opinion is an excellent example of how our intuition can be incorrect. For your information, there are ways of formally defining surface area, but it's nowhere as simple as defining length of a curve.