General case without independence suppositions:
$$A=\text{visit to website 1},$$
$$B=\text{visit to website 2},$$
$$F=\text{visitor is female},$$
$$0.8P(A)=P(A)P(F|A)=P(F\cap A)=P(A\setminus B)P(F|A\setminus B)+P(A\cap B)P(F|A\cap B),$$
$$0.8P(B)=P(B)P(F|B)=P(F\cap B)=P(B\setminus A)P(F|B\setminus A)+P(A\cap B)P(F|A\cap B).$$
Now, $P(A)$, $P(B)$, $P(A\cap B)$ are free parameters (with $P(A)+P(B)\ge 1$, $P(A\cap B)>0$,...), $P(A\setminus B)=P(A)-P(A\cap B)$, $P(B\setminus A)=P(B)-P(A\cap B)$ and we have a system of two equations with three unknowns: $P(F|A\setminus B)$, $P(F|B\setminus A)$, $P(F|A\cap B)$, i.e., we have a lineal relationship between the three unknowns.
If $P(A|F)$... are known we can use Bayes (maybe in a future edition).
EDIT: an illustrative diagram

$P(A)$, $P(B)$ are areas and also lenghts (why?) $P(F|A\setminus B)$, $P(F|B\setminus A)$, $P(F|A\cap B)$ are quotients of areas and also lenghts (why?)