My question is basically the same as this, but the answer in that page was not clear to me.
Let me restate the question here: let $\Omega\subset\mathbb{R}^3$ be a domain with boundary $\Gamma$, and let $\mathbf{u}$ be a vector field defined on all $\Omega$.
We define the surface stress as
$$ \mathbf{s}_t = \nabla \mathbf{u}\cdot\mathbf{n} - (\mathbf{n}\cdot\nabla \mathbf{u}\cdot\mathbf{n})\mathbf{n} $$
Question: can I compute $\mathbf{s}_t$ using only $\nabla_\mathbf{v}\mathbf{u}$, for one or more suitable choices of $\mathbf{v}$? Here, $\nabla_\mathbf{v} \mathbf{u}$ denotes the covariant derivative of $\mathbf{u}$ along the vector $\mathbf{v}$.