I respect your curiosity for asking these kinds of questions; they're important questions, and I think the downvoters were too harsh.
The basic distinction that needs to be understood is the distinction between a number and sequence of numbers. A number is basically a distinct point on the real line. Hence, a sequence of numbers is basically an infinite sequence of points on the real line.
For example, $0.9999\ldots$ is a number; it happens to be the same number as $1$, because it is represented by the same point on the real line. On the other hand, the sequence:
$$(0,0.9,0.99,\ldots)$$
should be thought of as an infinite sequence of points on the real line. The first point in this sequence is $0$, the second is $0.9$, the third is $0.99$ etc.
So, what is the connection between the number $0.9999\ldots$ and the above sequence? To explain this, we need the concepts of "convergent sequence" and of "limit." Unfortunately, these have fairly technical definitions, but let me try to explain them intuitively.
Some sequences have the property that the points are getting closer and closer to some fixed value. The sequence $(0,0.9,0.99,\ldots)$ falls into this category; it gets closer and closer to the number $1$. When this happens, we say that the sequence is convergent, or we might say that it "converges to some fixed value." Okay, what are we going to call that fixed value? Mathematical convention is that we call it the limit of the sequence. So we can say that the sequence $(0,0.9,0.99,\ldots)$ is convergent, with limit $1$.
On the other hand, some sequences don't become arbitrarily close to any point on the real line. For example, the sequence $(0,1,0,1,0\cdots)$ falls into this category. We therefore say that this sequence is not convergent, and that it does not have a limit. (You may object and say that it becomes arbitrarily close to two different points, namely $0$ and $1$. But that's not how the definition of a limit works; you'll have to dive into the technical details to see why. This stuff takes time, unfortunately, and it can be quite challenging.)
Okay, now that we understand the meaning of "convergent sequence" and "limit", lets get back to the main point. What is the relationship between the number $0.9999\ldots$, and the sequence $(0,0.9,0.99,\ldots)$? Well the very definition of $0.9999\ldots$ is that its the limit of the sequence $(0,0.9,0.99,\ldots).$ Hence the following statements (which are both true) are really expressing the same thing.
- $0.9999\ldots$ equals $1$
- the sequence $(0,0.9,0.99,\ldots)$ is convergent, with limit $1$.