A couple of conceptual points first:
We can't assume that the derivative at the origin is the zero map, as you imply. Rather if you can show the derivative $L_{(0,0)}$ is the zero map, then you have calculated the derivative. It is certainly true however that $f(0,0) = 0$, as $|f(0,0)| \leq 0^2 + 0^2$.
Also, having shown the derivative is the zero map, it follows immediately that the partial derivatives at the origin are also zero, because if the derivative exists at a point, then the partial derivatives are equal to the entries of the matrix that defines the derivative as a linear map.
So to show that $L_{(0,0)} = \bf 0$, by the definition of the derivative, you need to show that
$$\lim_{(x,y)\to(0,0)} \frac{\left|\,f(x,y) - f(0,0) - L_{(0,0)}((x,y)-(0,0))\right|}{||(x,y) - (0,0)||} = 0$$
As $f(0,0) = 0$ and by hypothesis $L_{(0,0)} = \bf 0$, establishing this limit is equivalent to showing
$$\lim_{(x,y)\to(0,0)} \frac{|f(x,y)|}{||(x,y)||} = 0$$
This last result is true. Can you take it from here?