I'm trying to work my way through Herbert Enderton's A Mathematical Introduction to Logic, and I'm currently stuck on the following exercise (3.2.3, to be precise):
Let $\mathfrak{A}$ be a model of $\text{Th }\mathfrak{N}_L$. For $a$ and $b$ in $\vert\mathfrak{A}\vert$ define the equivalence relation: \begin{align*}a\sim b\Longleftrightarrow\ &\mathbf{S}^\mathfrak{A}\text{ can be applied a finite number of times to one of}\\&a,b\text{ to reach the other.}\end{align*}Let $[a]$ be the equivalence class to which $a$ belongs. Order equivalence classes by $$[a]\prec[b]\text{ iff }a<^\mathfrak{A}b\text{ and }a\nsim b.$$Show that this is a well-defined ordering on the set of equivalence classes.
where $\mathfrak{N}_L=\left(\mathbb{N};0,S,<\right)$ and $S$ is the successor function.
I'm really not sure how to go about solving this problem, any help would be greatly appreciated. In particular, I'm not sure what the difference between an ordering and a well-defined ordering is. I do know, though, that for a relation to be an ordering, it needs to be transitive and satisfy trichotomy on the set.