Here is an excerpt from the notes we are using:
The first fundamental form dictates how one computes dot products of vectors tangent to the surface assuming they are expanded according to the basis $\frac{\partial q}{\partial u},\frac{\partial q}{\partial v}$.
In particular, we see that while the metric coefficients depend on our parametrization, the dot product $\text{I} (X, Y )$ of two tangent vectors remains the same if we change parameters.
I assume that first fundamental form is really a map from $T_pM \times T_pM\to \text{R}$, but I don't understand what the first part is talking about. Why would we need a matrix to tell us how to perform dot products? I mean, suppose we have vectors $<a,b,c>$ and $<d,e,f>$, we just multiply them term by term, isn't that correct? There is a calculation in the notes, showing that $\text{I}(X,Y)=X \cdot Y$, that even made me more confused.