Assume that $r$ is an integer.
Since either $t$ or $t+1$ is even, $t$ is an integer for any integer $r$.
$$ \begin{align} 2r &= t(t+1)\\ 8r &= 4t(t+1)\\ 8r &= 4t^2 + 4t\\ 8r + 1 &= 4t^2 + 4t + 1\\ 8r+1 &= (2t+1)^2 \end{align} $$
So $8r+1$ must be an odd square for any integer $r$, however if $r=20$
$$ \begin{align} 8r+1&=8\cdot20+1\\ &=161\\ \sqrt{8r+1}&=\sqrt{161}\\ &\approx12.6886 \end{align} $$
What did I do wrong here? And when is $8r+1$ really a square number?