the answer is $0.03868$ which is same as posted by Barak Manos.
firstly the problem assumes that all people in the room are born in the same year.
$10$ people can choose $12$ months in $12^{10}$ ways. This forms our sample space.---(1)
Now as the problem states that exactly $3$ people have their b'days in the same month, first we choose $3$ people from the $10$ people in $10C3$ ways. now as the $3$ people have their b'days in a particular month, that month can be selected in $12C1$ ways. for the remaining $7$ people there are $11$ months left. And since their b'days must not fall in the same month, the choosing of months is without replacement.
So the numerator becomes: $10C3 * 12C1 *(11C1 * 10C1 * 9C1 * 8C1 * 7C1 * 6C1 *5C1)$....(2)
Note that the term in the bracket indicates the remaining $7$ people choosing their b'days.
So the required probability is (2) divided by (1)