Let $G$ be a group and $x,y\in G$. We say that a topology $\mathcal{T}$ is a group topology if the functions $$f: G\times G \rightarrow G,\quad (x,y)\mapsto xy$$ and $$g: G\to G,\quad x\mapsto x^{-1}$$ are continuous. We call the pair $(G,\mathcal{T})$ a topological group.
I am trying to understand the above definition by playing around with some basic examples. To create an example for myself, I tried to take the symmetric group $S_{3}$ and tried to turn it into as many topological groups as possible.
Right away, I've dismissed the discrete and trivial topology as intuitively obvious as topological groups and I feel like there are no other group topologies on $S_{3}$. Is this true?
I tried to constructively create a third group by setting $(123) \in S_{3}$ as an open set for my soon to be topology. Using the definition of a topology we know that
$$\{\emptyset, (123), S_{3}\}\subseteq \mathcal{T}.$$
Now, if I require $f$ to be continuous, I am already extremely lost to the extent that I don't know what to say. We have that $f$ is a function from $G\times G \rightarrow G$ as function on group elements; but the definition of continuity requires $f: X\rightarrow Y$ where $X$ and $Y$ are topological spaces. My inclination would be to ignore this technical detail by assuming that $G\times G$ and $G$ can act as topological spaces, which leads me back into a circle as to what the open sets of $G$ have to be. Do the open sets of $G$ as a topological space also have to be a topological group? How would I begin to pick a topology on $G\times G$? The box topology is the most natural, but why not a more exotic one?
This seems to have opened up a much larger barrel of worms for me when all I did was conjecture to myself that the only two group topologies on $S_{3}$ are the discrete topology and the trivial one.