When $w(x,y,z)$ is constant (i.e. defining a level surface), then the normal vector $\vec N$ to the surface points in the direction of the gradient $\nabla w$.
Here, the gradient is given by
$$\begin{align}
\vec N&=\nabla w(x,y,z)\\\\
&=\nabla (xy+yz+xz)\\\\
&=\hat x \frac{\partial w}{\partial x}+\hat y \frac{\partial w}{\partial y}+\hat z \frac{\partial w}{\partial z}\\\\
&=\hat x (y+z)+\hat y (x+z)+\hat z (x+y)
\end{align}$$
which at $(1,-1,2)$ is $\vec N=\hat x+3\hat y$.
The equation of the plane that passes through $(1,-1,2)$ and has normal $\hat N=\hat x+3\hat y$ is
$$\hat N \cdot (\vec r - \vec r_0)=0$$
where $\vec r$ locates an arbitrary point of the surface and $\vec r_0$ is the given point $\vec r_0=\hat x -\hat y+2\hat z$.
Thus, the equation of the tangent plane to the level surface at $(1,-1,2)$ is given by
$$(x-1)+3(y+1)=0$$
Now, if we want a parametric description of the plane we need two vectors that span the plane. Let's find two more point on the plane. This is arbitrary, provided that the triad of points are not collinear.
For Point 1, we choose $\vec r_1=\hat x 4-\hat y 2+\hat z 2$, and for Point 2 we choose $\vec r_2=\hat x-\hat y$.
Then, two vectors that span the plane are given by the difference of pairs of the three points chosen. We can therefore write these vectors as
$$\begin{align}
\vec T_1&=\hat x3-\hat y+\hat z 2\\
\vec T_1&=\hat x3-\hat y
\end{align}$$
Note that $T_1 \times T_2$ is parallel to $\vec N$ as required.
Finally, the parametric description of the plane can be expressed as
$$\begin{align}
\vec r&=\vec r_0+u\vec T_1 +v \vec T_2\\\\
&=(\hat x -\hat y+2\hat z)+u(\hat x3-\hat y+\hat z 2)+v(\hat x3-\hat y)
\end{align}$$
or in non-vector form
$$\begin{align}
x&=1+3u+3v\\
y&=-(1+u+v)\\
z&=2(1+u)
\end{align}$$
Note that this parametric description is not unique.