So I have a normal surface (ie, all components are dimension 2) $X$ which is smooth and affine over a Dedekind domain $R$ (so $X$ is an affine scheme). Suppose $R'$ is integral (possibly not dedekind) and $Spec(R')\rightarrow Spec(R)$ is finite flat (but possibly ramified).
Does $X_{R'}$ (the base change of $X$ to $Spec(R')$) have the property that connected components are irreducible?
Note that $X$ has this property since it's normal. If $K,K'$ are the fraction fields of $R,R'$ respectively, then $X_K$ also has this property since it's also normal, and since $X_{K'}$ is smooth over $X_K$ and normality is smooth-local, $X_{K'}$ is also normal and has this property.
The intuition is this:
By There is a bijection between irreducible components of the generic fiber and irreducible components passing through it. together with the fact that $X_{R'}\rightarrow Spec(R')$ is smooth (hence open), we know that the irreducible components of $X_{R'}$ are in bijection with the irreducible components of $X_{K'}$, which are its connected components.
Suppose two irreducible components $C_1,C_2\subset X_{R'}$ intersect. If they intersect in a curve, then there are two possibilities: The intersection is fibral (ie, lies in a fiber of the map $X_{R'}\rightarrow Spec(R')$). In this case, that fiber should be either singular (nonreduced?), probably(?) contradicting the smoothness assumption of $X\rightarrow Spec(R)$ (and hence $X_{R'}\rightarrow Spec(R')$), or higher dimension than the other fibers, contradicting flatness. If the intersection is not fibral, then the generic point of the intersection should map to the generic point of $Spec(R')$, and hence this should correspond to two irreducible components of $X_{K'}$ intersecting, which is impossible by normality.
If $C_1,C_2$ intersect at a point, then that point should be a singular point in its fiber, which again probably(?) contradicts smoothness.
Does this make sense? If it doesn't, does anyone have a counterexample?
EDIT: Here are some really simple examples:
$X = Spec k[x,y,z]/(xy)$, so $X$ is the union of two planes intersecting in the $z$-axis. Then over $R = Spec k[x]$, we see that the fiber above $x = 0$ is 2-dimensional, whereas the fiber above $x = a$ $(a\ne 0)$ is only 1-dimensional. This contradicts flatness. If $R = Spec k[x-y]$, then the fiber at $x-y = 0$ is Spec $k[x,z]/(x^2)$, which is nonreduced, contradicting smoothness.