I'm interested in showing that $S^m * S^n \approx S^{m+n+1} $, as discussed in exercise 0.18 of Hatcher's Algebraic Topology. One way to show it would be to show that $X * Y \approx \Sigma(X \wedge Y)$. This fact shows up only in a later exercise in the chapter, so I have to think he's looking for something else.
This, this, and this question allude to answers. In particular, there is this answer, which I don't understand:
If $A$ and $B$ are subsets of $\mathbb R^n$ then you can map $A\times I\times B$ to $\mathbb R^n$ by $(a,t,b)\mapsto (1−t)a+tb$. If the resulting continuous map $A∗B\to \mathbb R^n$ happens to be one to one then you can ask whether it gives a homeomorphism to its image. If $A$ and $B$ are compact, then the answer is necessarily yes, since a continuous bijection from a compact space to a Hausdorff space is always a homeomorphism.
This suffices to see that the join of spheres is a sphere.