For simplicity I'll work in $M=\mathbf R^2$.
Given $f\in C^\infty(M)=\Omega^0(M)$, its exterior derivative $df$ is a 1-form that eats a tangent vector and spits out the best linear approximation of (the change in) $f$ if we walk along the direction specified by that vector. In other words, given a point $(x,y)\in M$ and a tangent vector $(dx,dy)\in T_{(x,y)}M$, our 1-form $df=\displaystyle\frac{\partial f}{\partial x}\,dx+\frac{\partial f}{\partial y}\,dy$ eats $(x,y,dx,dy)\in TM$ and spits out a real number that's supposed to be the infinitesimal change in $f$.
The part I never really wrapped my head around is the exterior derivative of higher forms. In coordinates, it's usually defined to be $d(g\,dx+h\,dy)=dg\wedge dx+dh\wedge dy$ (and analogously for higher forms). Question: Can I interpret this to be the "infinitesimal change in $\omega=g\,dx+h\,dy$"?
Thus, instead of thinking of $d:\Omega^k(M)\to\Omega^{k+1}(M)$, can I think of $d\omega$ as eating a tangent vector and spitting out the infinitesimal change in $\omega$? Paraphrased: Does $X\lrcorner\, d\omega$ represent the infinitesimal change in $\omega$ in the direction $X$?
I've noted that $X\lrcorner\,d\omega$ is "half" of Cartan's magic formula, which is also supposed to represent the infinitesimal change in $\omega$ if we flow along $X$, and this just completely confused me. At this point, I'm not even sure I know what I mean by "infinitesimal change in $\omega$" anymore. Is there any hope in trying to understand things the way I'm currently trying to, or should I just abandon this altogether and just live with the axioms?