Recall the $f: R^2 \to R$ is differentiable at $(a,b)$ iff $f$ can be expressed in the form $f(x,y) = f(a,b) + f_x(a,b)(x-a)+f_y(a,b)(y-b) + E(x,y)$ with the error term $E(x,y)$ satisfies: $\displaystyle \lim_{(x,y) \to (a,b)} \dfrac{E(x,y)}{\sqrt{(x-a)^2+(y-b)^2}}=0$. Thus you either prove the partials does not exist or the limit of $E$ is not zero. Let's find out what really happens to $f$. We have: $f_x(0,0) = \displaystyle \lim_{h \to 0} \dfrac{f(h+0,0)-f(0,0)}{h}=\displaystyle \lim_{h \to 0} = \displaystyle \lim_{h \to 0} \dfrac{0-0}{h}= 0=\displaystyle \lim_{k \to 0} \dfrac{f(0,0+k)-f(0,0)}{k} = \displaystyle \lim_{k \to 0} \dfrac{0-0}{k} = 0$. Since $f(0,0) = 0$, we have $E(x,y) = f(x,y) = \dfrac{xy^2}{x^2+y^2}$. Thus: $\displaystyle \lim_{(x,y) \to (0,0)} \dfrac{E(x,y)}{\sqrt{x^2+y^2}} = \displaystyle \lim_{(x,y) \to (0,0)} \dfrac{xy^2}{(x^2+y^2)^{\frac{3}{2}}} = \text{ does not exist }$. All that you need to prove it does not exist is to choose $2$ paths for example: $(x,y) = (t,t)$, and $(x,y) = (2t,t)$