Starting from what you ought to have:
$(z−(2+\frac{3}{2}i))^2 = -7-i + (2+\frac{3}{2}i)^2$.
we get:
$(z−(2+\frac{3}{2}i))^2 = -7-i + (4+6i-\frac{9}{4}) = \frac{-21+20i}{4} = (\frac{2+5i}{2})^2$.
The last step I obtained by guessing. If you want a systematic way to find the square root of a complex number if it is a perfect square (the square of a rational complex number) you can use the following technique.
Given $(a+bi)^2 = c+di$ where $a,b,c,d \in \mathbb{R}$:
$a^2-b^2 = c$ and $2ab = d$ [by comparing real and imaginary parts].
Thus $4 a^2 - 4 a^2 b^2 = 4 a^2 c^2$ and $4 a^2 b^2 = d^2$ [multiply the first by $2a^2$ and square the second].
Thus $4 a^4 - 4c a^2 - d^2 = 0$ [Add them together to get a quadratic in $a$].
Thus $(2a^2-c)^2 = c^2+d^2$ [Complete the square].
Thus $2a^2-c = \sqrt{c^2+d^2}$ and hence $a = \pm \sqrt{\frac{\sqrt{c^2+d^2}+c}{2}}$.
Also $2b^2 = 2a^2 - 2c = \sqrt{c^2+d^2}-c$ and hence $b = \pm \sqrt{\frac{\sqrt{c^2+d^2}-c}{2}}$.
[Note that the choices of sign are dependent, so it may be better to use $b = \frac{d}{2a}$ instead.]
In the above case we get:
$\sqrt{-21+20i} = \pm \left( \sqrt{\frac{\sqrt{21^2+20^2}-21}{2}} + \sqrt{\frac{\sqrt{21^2+20^2}+21}{2}} i \right) = \pm (2+5i)$.
[Here I have chosen the signs correctly.]