The $x$ coordinate is a branched map $E \to P^1$ and makes $P^1$ into the quotient of $E$ by its automorphism $(P \mapsto -P)$.
If you know the $x$ coordinate of $P$, this is the same thing as knowing $\{P, -P\}$. Let $Q = (\alpha,0)$. Since $Q= -Q$, $\{P+Q,-P+Q\} = \{P+Q,-(P+Q)\}$ so the addition by $Q$ induces a map $f : P^1 \to P^1$ taking the $x$ coordinate of $\pm P$ and returning the $x$ coordinate of $\pm(P+Q)$.
Furthermore, that map is obviously an involution, so it is in $Aut(P^1)$, which means it is a Mobius transformation.
Now we can look at what $f$ is on the points of order $2$ (i.e. $x = \infty,\alpha$, and the roots of $x^2+ax+b$). Clearly, $f$ switches $\infty$ with $\alpha$ and it switches the other two roots.
Since $f(\alpha) = \infty$ and $f(\infty) = \alpha$, $f$ must be of the form $x \mapsto (\alpha x + t) / (x - \alpha)$ for some expression $t$ depending on $\alpha,a,b$.
Let $\beta_1,\beta_2$ be the other two roots.
Then $-a = \beta_2 + \beta_1 = f(\beta_1)+f(\beta_2) = \frac{2\alpha\beta_1\beta_2+(t-\alpha^2)(\beta_1+\beta_2)-2\alpha t}{\alpha^2-\alpha(\beta_1+\beta_2)+\beta_1\beta_2} = \frac{2\alpha b+\alpha^2a-t(a+2\alpha)}{\alpha^2+a\alpha+b}$
Hence $t = \frac{2a\alpha^2+a^2\alpha+ab+2\alpha b}{a+2\alpha} = a\alpha+b$