I am currently reading a "pop-science" book on statistical fallacies. On page 36 the authors discuss how events can cluster around certain locations by chance. The authors exemplify this by a $6*6$ checkerboard and two dice.
Without further explanation they calculate that a square with $4$ events will happen roughly every second simulation ($\frac{1}{0.54} = 1.85 \approx 2$), where one simulation consists of $36$ rolls of two dice (as far as I understand).
Now I understood that, according to this answer, the expected number of rolls for a number to repeat, given a single fair die, is:
$$\operatorname{E}[r] = \sum_{r=2}^{n+1} r \frac{n!(r-1)}{(n-r+1)!n^r}$$
So given that rolling two dice or one 36-sided die give equal results, I can calculate the number of rolls to see a square with two events. But how do I generalize this to $N$ events? Which I suspect is one way to figure out how many rolls it takes to see a square with $4$ events, right?
Also, according to a footnote, the authors appear to be using the Poisson distribution to calculate this.
I know that the Binomial distribution converges towards the Poisson distribution as the number of trials goes to infinity while the product $np$ remains fixed.
I see how one could e.g. calculate the probability that $4$ events occur in a specific square using both the Binomial and Poisson distribution for a simulation of 36 throws of a 36-sided die:
$${36 \choose 4} \left( \frac{1}{36}\right)^4 \left( \frac{35}{36}\right)^{32} \approx 0.014$$
$$\frac{1^4e^{-1}}{4!} \approx 0.015$$
But I am not sure how the authors used the Poisson distribution to calculate the expected number of simulations of 36 throws necessary to see an unspecified square with 4 events.
Sorry for the long question, I'd appreciate if someone could at least point out some book or other resource where I can learn all this from. Thanks a lot!

For a simulation you roll the dice 36 times. After which you have drawn 36 lines on a 6*6 square board and therefore a mean of 1 line per square.
"The mean value after 36 rolls is exactly 1 strike per box. Statically one would expect a box with 4 strikes in approximately every second simulation (1/0.54 = 1.85 ~ 2) [...]."
– user245312 Aug 24 '15 at 17:43