In Immerman's book "Descriptive complexity" he says that
$A \cong B$ implies $A = B$ when $A$ and $B$ are totally ordered structures.
See: (Descriptive Complexity, Neil immerman)
Definition $\bf 1.21\quad$ (Isomorphism of Unordered Structures) Let $\cal A$ and $\cal B$ be structures of vocabulary $\tau=\langle R_1^{a_1},...,R_r^{a_r},c_1,...,c_2\rangle$. We say that $\cal A$ is isomorphic to $\cal B$, written, ${\cal A}\cong{\cal B}$, iff there is a map $f:|{\cal A}|\to|{\cal B}|$ with the following properties:
- $f$ is $1:1$ and onto.
- For every input relation symbol $R_i$ and for every $a_i$-tuple of elements of $\cal|A|$, $e_1,...,e_{a_i}$, $$\langle e_1,...,e_{a_i}\rangle\in R_i^{\cal A}\qquad\Leftrightarrow\qquad\langle f(e_1),...,f(e_{a_i})\rangle\in R_i^{\cal B}$$
- For every input constant symbol $c_i$, $f(c_i^{\cal A})=c_i^{\cal B}$.
The map $f$ is called an isomorphism. $$\tag*{$\square$}$$ $\quad$ As an example, see graphs $G$ and $H$ in Figure 1.1 which are isomorphic using the map that adds one mod five to the numbers of the vertices of $G$.
$\quad$ Note that we have defined isomorphism so that they need only preserve the input symbols, not the ordering and other numeric relations. If we included the oredring relation then we would have $\cal A\cong B$ iff $\cal A=B$. To be completely precise, we should call the mapping $f$ defined above an "isomorphism of unordered structures" and say that $\cal A$ and $\cal B$ are "isomorphic as unordered structures". (Note also that, since "unordered string" does not make sense, neither does the concept of isomorphism for strings. By a strict interpretation of Definition 1.21, two strings would be isomorphic as unordered structures iff they had the same number of each symbol.)
$\quad$ The following proposition is basic.
He defines the input relations as the relations that are not ordering, plus, times.
However, if we define the structures $(\{0,1\},\leq)$ and $(\{1,2\},\leq)$ are clearly isomorphic as ordered structures ($\leq$ is the usual ordering on the natural numbers). They are not equal, however. So what does he mean exactly?