What would be an example of $f$ s.t. $\int_0^1 \int_0^1 f dx dy = \int_0^1 \int_0^1 f dx dy < \infty$ but the double integral $$\int_{[0,1]^2} f \ d(x,y) = \infty$$
Or maybe there doesn't exist such $f$ (which I doubt)? The integrals are Lebesgue.
What would be an example of $f$ s.t. $\int_0^1 \int_0^1 f dx dy = \int_0^1 \int_0^1 f dx dy < \infty$ but the double integral $$\int_{[0,1]^2} f \ d(x,y) = \infty$$
Or maybe there doesn't exist such $f$ (which I doubt)? The integrals are Lebesgue.
I will assume that $f$ is measurable (otherwise the double integral does not make sense).
In this case, there is no counterexample, since your assumption on the double integral implies $\int_{[0,1]^2} f_+ d(x,y)=\infty$ and $\int_{[0,1]^2} f_- d(x,y)<\infty$ (where $f_+$ and $f_-$ denote the positive/negative parts of $f$).
But now, the Fubini-Tonelli theorem yields
\begin{eqnarray*} \int_{[0,1]}\int_{[0,1]} f_+ (x,y) \,dx\,dy =\infty\\ \int_{[0,1]}\int_{[0,1]} f_-(x,y) \,dx\,dy <\infty \end{eqnarray*} and analogously for the other ordering of integrals. In particular, the "inner" integral over $f_-$ is finite for almost all $y$.
Adding these two identities shows $$ \int_{[0,1]}\int_{[0,1]} f(x,y) \, dy\, dx=\infty $$ and likewise for the other ordering.