Let $N,H$ two subgroup of a group $G$ such that at least one is normal. By Surb answer here, $NH$ is the smallest group that contain $N$ and $H$. But if $I$ and $J$ are ideal, they are also group for $+$, therefore we should have $I\cap J\leq I,J\leq IJ$ (where $A\leq B$ means $A$ subgroup of $B$). So why with ideal is different whereas they are also groups ?
Because if $I$ and $J$ are ideal, then $IJ\subset I\cap J$, whereas by what I said before, we should have $I\cap J\leq IJ$.
P.S: I know how to show that $IJ\subset I\cap J$ so it's not my question ! I just want to understand the subtlety of this inclusion.