Note that we have
$$s_{n+1} (5-3s_n) = 1 + s_n,$$
thus in particular $s_n \neq 5/3$ for all $n$ and so
$$\tag{1} s_{n+1} = \frac{1+s_n}{5-3s_n}.$$
The mapping
$$f(z) = \frac{z + 1}{-3z+5}$$
is a Mobius transform. One can check that
$$f^{(n)} (z) = \frac{az+ b}{cz+ d},$$
where
$$\begin{bmatrix} a & b \\ c & d \end{bmatrix} = \begin{bmatrix} 1 & 1 \\ -3 & 5\end{bmatrix}^n$$
Doing some linear algebra, we have
$$\begin{bmatrix} 1 & 1 \\ -3 & 5\end{bmatrix} = \begin{bmatrix} 1 & 1 \\ 1 & 3\end{bmatrix} \begin{bmatrix} 2 & 0 \\ 0 & 4\end{bmatrix}\begin{bmatrix} 1 & 1 \\ 1 & 3\end{bmatrix}^{-1}$$
When $n=42$, we have (direct computations)
$$\begin{bmatrix} a & b \\ c & d \end{bmatrix} = \frac{1}{2} \begin{bmatrix} 3\cdot 2^{42} -4^{42} & -2^{42} + 4^{42} \\ 3\cdot 2^{42} - 3\cdot 4^{42} & 3\cdot 4^{42} - 2^{42} \end{bmatrix}$$
So the fact that $s_1 = s_{43}$ is the same as
$$s_1 = \frac{(3\cdot 2^{42}-4^{42}) s_1 +(-2^{42} + 4^{42})}{(3\cdot 2^{42} - 3\cdot 4^{42})s_1 + 3\cdot 4^{42} - 2^{42}}$$
By some calculations,
$$3s_1^2 - 4s_1 + 1 = 0\Rightarrow s_1= 1 \text{ or } \frac 13.$$
Put into $(1)$, we get either $s_n = 1$ for all $n$ or $s_n = \frac 13$ for all $n$. So
$$s_1 + \cdots + s_{42} = 42 \text{ or } 14.$$