We will show that if $A$ is any subset of $\{ 1, 2, 3, \ldots, 200\}$ such that no two integers in $A$ differ by 4, 5 or 9, then $|A| \leq 64$.
Let for any integer $k$, $A+k$ represent the set $\{a+k: a \in A\}$. Note that $A \cap A+4 = A \cap A = A \cap A+9 = A+4 \cap A+ 9 = A+5 \cap A+9 = \phi$. Thus
\begin{align*}
|A \cup A+4 \cup A+5 \cup A+9| &= 4|A| - |A+4 \cap A+5|
\end{align*}
Note that $A$ can not contain more than 4 consecutive numbers. Also, if it contains $i, i+1, i+2, i+3$, then $i+4, i+5, i+6, i+7, i+8, i+9, i+10, i+11, i+12$ can not belong to $A$. Thus in any set of 13 consecutive numbers, it can not contain more than 4 consecutive numbers. Note that $A+4 \cap A+5$ is maximum when it contains as many consecutive numbers as possible. Thus the maximum of $|A+4 \cap A+5|$ happens, we have
$|A+4 \cap A+5|$ is at most $3 \times \lfloor \frac{200}{13}\rfloor + 4 = 49$. Hence
$$4|A| - 49 \leq 4|A| - |A+4 \cap A+5| = |A \cup A+4 \cup A+5 \cup A+9| \leq 209$$
and $|A| \leq 64$.
A set with 64 elements is
$$\{13k + 1, 13k+2, 13k+3, 13k+4: k = 0, 1, 2, \ldots, 15 \}$$