You won't find any $\mathbb R$-subspace $\mathfrak h$ of $\mathfrak{sl}_2(\mathbb C)$ such that $[\mathfrak h,\mathfrak h]=0$ whose real dimension is $3$. In fact, you would have that $\mathfrak h_\mathbb C=\mathfrak h\oplus i\mathfrak h$ is a complex abelian sub-algebra of $\mathfrak{sl}_2(\mathbb C)$ whose complex dimension is $2$ or $3$. That means
$$
\mathfrak{sl}_2(\mathbb C)=\mathfrak h_\mathbb C\oplus V,
$$
where $V$ is a complex $1$-dimensional subspace, or
$$
\mathfrak{sl}_2(\mathbb C)=\mathfrak h_\mathbb C.
$$
So, in the firs case,
$$
\mathfrak{sl}_2(\mathbb C) = [ \mathfrak{sl}_2(\mathbb C), \mathfrak{sl}_2(\mathbb C) ] = [\mathfrak h_\mathbb C,\mathfrak h_\mathbb C]\oplus[\mathfrak h_\mathbb C,V]\oplus[V,V]=[\mathfrak h_\mathbb C,V].
$$
But $\mathfrak{sl}_2(\mathbb C)$ has complex dimension $3$ and $[\mathfrak h_\mathbb C,V]$ has complex dimension at most $2$. A contradiction. In the second case,
$$
\mathfrak{sl}_2(\mathbb C) = [ \mathfrak{sl}_2(\mathbb C), \mathfrak{sl}_2(\mathbb C) ] = [\mathfrak h_\mathbb C,\mathfrak h_\mathbb C]=0.
$$
Again, a contradiction.
So, you can view the $3$-dimensional abelian Lie algebra $\mathbb R^3$ as a $\mathbb R$-subspace of $\mathfrak{sl}_2(\mathbb C)$ but not as a sub-algebra of it.
From what you wrote, my educated guess about it would be that the exercise is really about you noting that:
$\mathfrak{sl}_2(\mathbb R)$ can be canonically included in $\mathfrak{sl}_2(\mathbb C)$;
$\mathbb R^3$ can NOT be included (or viewed as OP said) in $\mathfrak{sl}_2(\mathbb C)$;
$\mathfrak{sl}_2(\mathbb R)$ and $\mathbb R^3$ span different complex Lie algebras.
Edited after OP's comment:
Consider $\mathfrak{su}(2)$ the real Lie algebra of the $2\times 2$ traceless antihermitian matrices:
$$
\left\{
\left(
\begin{array}{cc}
i\alpha & \beta + i\gamma \\
- \beta + i\gamma & -i\alpha
\end{array}
\right)
: \alpha,\beta,\gamma\in\mathbb R
\right\}.
$$
You can check directly (if you haven't yet) that $\mathfrak{su}(2)$ is a real Lie algebra (with the matrix commutator as the Lie bracket). Also, you can realize it as a real subalgebra of $\mathfrak{sl}_2(\mathbb C)$.
The Lie algebra $(\mathbb R^3,\times)$ (where $\times$ denotes the vector product in $\mathbb R^3$) is isomorphic to $\mathfrak{su}(2)$ by the map:
$$
(x,y,z)\to\frac{1}{2}\left(
\begin{array}{cc}
ix & y + iz \\
- y + iz & -ix
\end{array}
\right).
$$
So, this is one of the ways you can realize $(\mathbb R^3,\times)$ as a real sub-algebra of $\mathfrak{sl}_2(\mathbb C)$.