I think it's a bit tricky to articulate where the extra $1$ came from and how to get rid of it since it originated from a combination of two separate errors.
Let $A$ be the set of shares Albert owns, let $R$ be the set of shares Rena owns, and let $U$ be the set of all shares. The set of shares Albert doesn't own is $A'=U\setminus A$; the set of shares Rena doesn't own is $R'=U\setminus R$.
The straightforward computation that you give first, stated in this language, is
$$
\lvert U\setminus(A\cup R)\rvert=\lvert U\rvert-\lvert A\rvert-\lvert R\rvert=1-\frac{5}{9}-\frac{1}{2}\cdot\frac{5}{9}=\frac{1}{6},
$$
where the right side of this equation is justified by the properties that $A$ and $R$ are disjoint subsets of $U$.
The correct way to do the computation using the complements $A'$ and $R'$ is to compute $\lvert A'\cap R'\rvert$. I think your friend made two errors,
computing $\lvert A'\cup R'\rvert$ rather than $\rvert A'\cap R'\rvert$, and
computing $\lvert A'\cup R'\rvert$ using $\rvert A'\cup R'\rvert=\lvert A'\rvert+\lvert R'\rvert$, which ignores the overlap of $A'$ and $R'$.
Let's fix (2) first by using the principle of inclusion-exclusion, which states that
$$
\lvert X\cup Y\rvert=\lvert X\rvert+\lvert Y\rvert-\lvert X\cap Y\rvert.
$$
Applying this to the union of $A'$ and $R'$ gives
$$
\lvert A'\cup R'\rvert=\lvert A'\rvert+\lvert R'\rvert-\lvert A'\cap R'\rvert=\frac{4}{9}+\frac{13}{18}-\lvert A'\cap R'\rvert=\frac{7}{6}-\lvert A'\cap R'\rvert.
$$
How do we fix (1)? In other words, how do we compute $\lvert A'\cap R'\rvert$? Well, we can use the equation above! A bit of algebra gives
$$
\lvert A'\cap R'\rvert=\frac{7}{6}-\lvert A'\cup R'\rvert.
$$
This might not seem to be progress because it expresses the unknown intersection in terms of the unknown union. But actually the union isn't unknown: every share is unowned by one of Albert and Rena. So $A'\cup R'$ equals $U$, the set of all shares. Hence
$$
\lvert A'\cap R'\rvert=\frac{7}{6}-\lvert A'\cup R'\rvert=\frac{7}{6}-\lvert U\rvert=\frac{7}{6}-1=\frac{1}{6}.
$$
If I had to summarize, I'd say the extra $1$ comes from the union of the set of shares unowned by Albert and the set of shares unowned by Rena, which is, in fact, the set of all shares. The reason for subtracting this $1$ is to correct the two errors mentioned above.