I am trying to prove that given a metric d using only the properties that it $d(a,b)=0 iff a=b$ and $d(a,c)\le d(a,b)+d(b,c)$ that $d(a,b)=d(b,a)$ and $d(a,b) \gt 0$ I understand that it is part of the definition in most texts but it is left as an exercise in mine and I can not figure it out.
I edited my original question. I stated wrong we do not have that $d(a,a)=0$ I have that $d(a,b)=0 iff a=b$