I think you need the condition that the Markov Chain is reversible.
Def: Let $X$ be an irreducible Markov chain such that $X_n$ has the stationary distribution $\mathbb{\pi}$ for all $n$. The chain is called reversible if the transition matrices of $X$ and its time-reversal $Y$ are the same, which is to say that $$\pi_iPij = \pi_jPji \:\:\:\: \forall i,j$$
Thm: Let $P$ be the transition matrix of an irreducible chain $X$, and suppose that there exists a distribution $\mathbb{\pi}$ such that
$$\pi_iPij = \pi_jPji \:\:\:\: \forall i,j$$
Then $\mathbb{\pi}$ is a stationary distribution of the chain. Furthermore, $X$ is reversible in equilibrium.
Suppose that $\mathbb{\pi}$ satisfies these conditions, then
$$\sum_{i} \pi_iPij = \sum_{i} \pi_jPji = \pi_j \sum_{i} Pji = \pi_j $$