Not sure if this is what you are asking, but:
For the first equation, you can write it as
$$Y = a\cdot\frac1x + \frac1b.$$
Think of plotting $Y$ against $\frac 1x$. If the plot turns out to be a straight line, then the slope of the line is $a$ and the intercept is $\frac1b$, so $b$ is determined as the reciprocal of the intercept.
For the second equation, multiply both sides by $x$ to obtain
$$xY = a + \frac1b x^2.$$
So if plotting $xY$ on the vertical axis and $x^2$ on the horizontal axis produces a straight line, then the intercept of this line is $a$ and the slope is $\frac1b$.
For the third equation, you can divide both sides by $x$ to obtain
$$\frac Yx = ae^{-b/x^2}$$
and then take logs of both sides, resulting in
$$\ln\left(\frac Yx\right) = \ln a - \frac b{x^2}.$$
So if a plot of $\ln(Y/x)$ versus $\frac1{x^2}$ is a straight line, then the intercept is $\ln a$ and the slope is $-b$, from which you can determine $a$ and $b$.
As for hints on how to do this in general, the name of the game is to rearrange the equation and/or transform it until you can end up with something of the form $$y'=mx' + c$$ where I'm using $y'$ and $x'$ to represent new variables, and $m$ and $c$ are constants. It requires some trial and error, and knowledge about the effect of various transformations. (Note that it's not always possible to end up with an equation that isolates $m$ and $b$ in this way.)