We may have two different (but similar) situations:
(i) the language has the connectives: $\lnot, \land, \lor, \Rightarrow, \iff$.
In this case we prove "inside" the calculus that, e.g.
$(a \lor b) \iff \lnot (\lnot a \land \lnot b)$,
and so on.
(ii) the language has the connectives: $\lnot, \land$
and we define the abbreviations:
$(a \lor b)$ "stands for" $\lnot (\lnot a \land \lnot b)$,
and so on.
In this case, the definition of the abbreviation is not a formula of the calculus, but a statement in the meta-language.
In this case, "stands for" has the same "meaning" of iff, i.e. $\iff$, but we usually avoid to use the symbols for the connectives in te meta-language.