$X,Y$ are two random variables and we know the distribution of $X|Y$ and $Y|X$, then I want a counterexample that $(X,Y)$ is not unique determined.
this question is motivated by Can conditional distributions determine the joint distribution? , but there isn't a counterexample. I followed the direction of @heropup and considered the discrete case.
I construct two random variable that both valued in $\{0,1\}$:$\mathbb P(X=0,Y=0)=\frac 1 2, \mathbb P(X=0,Y=1)=\frac 1 4, \mathbb P(X=1,Y=0)=\frac 1 8, \mathbb P(X=1,Y=1)=\frac 1 8$.
now given the conditional probability above $\mathbb P(X=i|Y=j)$ and $\mathbb P(Y=i|X=j)$, I want to construct two different random variables $\tilde{X},\tilde Y$ valued in $\{0,1\}$ s.t. $\mathbb P(X=i|Y=j)=\mathbb P(\tilde X=i|\tilde Y=j)$ and $\mathbb P(Y=i|X=j)= \mathbb P(\tilde Y=i|\tilde X=j)$
I used the method of undetermined coefficients, but unfortunately the $(\tilde X,\tilde Y)$ has the same distribution with $(X,Y)$.
I don't know how to come up with a counterexample now, any help will be appreciated!