From the matrix cookbook, I got:
$\frac{\partial}{\partial X} ||X||_F^2 = \frac{\partial}{\partial X} Tr(XX^H) = 2X$
Now I want to compute $\frac{\partial}{\partial X} ||X-Y||_F^2 = \frac{\partial}{\partial X} Tr\left((X-Y)(X-Y)^H\right)$, but I am stuck here, any idea?