I'm currently trying to learn about regular elements of a Lie algebra but i'm finding the definition quite abstract and can't seem to find many examples anywhere.
One thing i'm really unsure about is that I have read that in $\mathfrak{sl}(3)$ a regular element is $X= E_{1,2} + E_{2,3}$ where $E_{x,y}$ corresponds to the matrix with a 1 in position (x,y) and 0's elsewhere. The centraliser of this group is given by $\text{span} \{E_{1,3} \}$. A theorem then claims that this set, which is equal to $\mathfrak{g}^0(X)$ is a Cartan subalgebra. But I on't see how this is true?
I was wondering if someone could give me an example of how to determine the regular elements of a given Lie algebra, say $\mathfrak{sl}(3)$.