Let $p,q$ be projections in a unital C*-algebra $A$ and let $\tilde{A}$ be the unitization. I'd like to show that if $p\sim_u q$ (ie $q=zpz^*$ for $z$ unitary in $\tilde A$), then $q=upu^*$ for $u$ unitary in $A$.
The book proceeds as follows: Set $1_\tilde A$ as the unit in $\tilde A$ and $1_A$ the unit in $A$. Let $f=1_\tilde A-1_A$. Then $\tilde A=A+\mathbb{C}f$. Assuming that $q=zpz^*$ for $z$ unitary in $\tilde A$, then $z=u+\alpha f$ for $\alpha\in\mathbb{C}$ and $u\in A$. It claims that $u$ is unitary from a calculation. This is what I cannot figure out.
I want to show that $uu^*=u^*u=1_A$. Solving for $u$ and multiplying, we get:
$uu^*=(z-\alpha f)(z^*-\bar{\alpha}f)=1_\tilde A-\bar{\alpha}fz-\alpha fz^*-| \alpha|^2f^2$.
I think that $f^*=f$, but I need to know that the involution on $A^*$ agrees with the involution on $A$. I think this is true but I am not sure. I know there is exactly one norm that allows $\tilde A$ to be a $C^*$ algebra but not sure if the involution is extended. Assuming that's true, we also can see that $f^2=f$, and so the problems reduces to showing:
$-\bar{\alpha}fz-\alpha fz^*-| \alpha|^2f=-f=1_A-1_\tilde A$.
I don't know how to continue. I've tried factoring and the like, but my main problems are that the $\alpha$ and $\bar\alpha$ in addition to the $z$ and $z^*$ are separated by addition instead of multiplication so I cannot simplify them.