Set theory enables us to turn assumptions into theorems. But it seems like few mathematicians are concerned with foundations and view the rest of mathematics, for example analysis, as having a life of its own. But the use of sets is widespread. The question is: how can 1) we not be concerned with foundations and 2) use sets in every part of math? Aren't (1) and (2) conflicting? I would understand if sets were just a convenient tool to make arguments. But they're not: they're a critical component. We can't "abstract" away from them (or: nobody seems to try).
If we're not using a formal notion of "set", then what is the meaning of statements of the form "there exists a set such that ..."? Does it mean instead "these objects can be thought of as being together"? And if so, why use the word "set" to describe something totally informal?