Consider the following example from Munkres's Topology:
Example 4: The set $X = \{ 1,2 \} \times \mathbb{Z}_{+}$ in the dictionary order is another example of an ordered set with a smallest element. Denoting $1 \times n$ by $a_n$ and $2 \times n$ by $b_n$, we can represent $X$ by $$a_1, a_2, \ldots; b_1, b_2, \ldots.$$ The order topology on $X$ is not the discrete topology. Most one-point sets are open, but there is an exception --- the one-point set $\{ b_1 \}$. Any open set containing $b_1$ must contain a basis element about $b_1$ (by definition), and any basis element containing $b_1$ contains points of the $a_i$ sequence.
I also read this post, but I still have some confusing about the concept open in the last statement.
What I understand:
To prove $b_1$ is not open, we need to show $b_1\notin \tau$, where $\tau$ is the order topology in $X$, so $\tau$ includes all set in the form of $(a,b),[a_0,b),(a,b_0]$. If we can prove $\{b_1\}$ is not in all these three forms, then it is not open.
Since $b_1$ is neither the minimum of $X$ nor maximum, let's assume $\{b_1\}=(x,y)$, then $x$ must be included in $a_i$ sequence, and $y$ must be included in $b_i$ sequence, so $x$ must be $a_i$ for some $i$, then since $a_i$ sequence is infinite, the interval $(x,y)$ can never be singleton, but left side $\{b_1\}$ is singleton, contradiction!
Does my idea work? any mistakes? Thanks in advance ^_^