Conditions (A),(B),(C),(D) are not needed to determine the tilted parabola ( $xy$ term non-zero). Because out of five constants needed to determine a conic, one can be reduced as zero determinant for parabola.You have given two points and two slopes which are quite sufficient.
$$ (x, y, y^{ \prime} ) = (3,3,1), (1,-1,-1) $$
Parabola involving $xy,x^2, y^2,x,y $ terms can be solved for y in a quadratic as:
$$ y^2 - 2y ( ax+b) + (ax+b)^2 - (cx+d) =0 $$
$$ y = (ax +b) \pm \sqrt{ c x +d } $$
$\pm$ symbol separates regions on either side of vertical tangent. Plug in given point coordinates:
$$ 3 a + b+ \sqrt{ 3c+d} =3 , \quad a + b+ \sqrt{ c+d} = -1 ,\quad a + c \ /( 2 \sqrt{ c+d} ) = 1 ,\quad a - c \ /( 2 \sqrt{ c+d} ) = -1 $$
Using a CAS to reduce tedium we get $ (a,b,c,d) = ( 1/2, -3/4, 9/4,-27/16) $
The parabola is plotted to verify everything .It checks out (C), (D) but (A),(B) are inconsistent with first inputs and are clearly incorrect.
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Some calculations needed (in progress)at focus and tangent orthogonal intersection on directrix
For parabola $ 4 a y = x^2 $
Points of tangency
$$ (2at, a t^2)\quad (2a/t, a/t^2) $$
Point of intersection of polar chord tangents on directrix which happens at right angles at a point D
$$ a [( t-1/t), -1] $$
Length of tangents $T_1,T_2$ given by
$$ (T_1/a)^2 = t^4+ 3 t^2 + 1/t^2 +3 = 2, \quad (T_2/a)^2 = 1/t^4+ 3/ t^2 + t^2 +3 = 18 $$
$$\rightarrow t= \frac13 $$
$OF$ is perpendicular on hypotenuse AB
$$ \frac{1}{OF^2} =\frac{1}{2} + \frac{1}{ 9 \cdot 2} $$
$$ OF = \frac{3}{\sqrt 5} ... $$
$$ \cos \beta= \frac{OF}{OB} = \frac{ 3}{\sqrt10},\quad \sin \beta= = \frac{ 1}{\sqrt10}\quad $$
to be continued
