Transitive definition is $\forall x[(x,y)∈R \land (y,z)∈R \implies (x,z)∈ R]$.
If $(a,b), (b,a) ∈ R$, then can I say that $(a,a) ∈ R$?
Because based on the definition $x,y,z$ are not the same value. So, I am not sure whether $(a,a)$ can be a transitive.