I tried solving the question in the title as follows:
$$\lim_{x\to \infty} \frac{4x^2}{x-2} - 4x \to 4x - 4x \to 0$$
However, apparently that first step ($\to 4x - 4x$) was wrong, and I should first have brought the second $4x$ into the numerator.
My question is not how I need to solve the question, as I know that now. My question is why what I did was wrong, as I lack any intuition for it, and it seems a mystery to me.