How can I prove that if $p$ is a critical point of a real-valued fuction $f$, then there is a function $H:T_{(p)}M\to T_{(p)}M$, such that $H$ is bilinear, simetric and:
$\bullet$ $H(X_p, Y_p)=X_p(Yf)=Y_p(Xf)$ for all $X,Y$ vector fields.
$\bullet$ $H(\delta_i|_p,\delta_j|_p)=\frac{\delta^2f}{\delta^2\delta x^i\delta x^j}(p)$ relative to a coordinate system
$\bullet$ $H(v,v)=(\frac{d^2(f\alpha)}{ds^2})(0)$ if $\alpha'(0)=v$