If $X_i \sim \operatorname{Normal}(\mu, \sigma^2)$ for each $i = 1, 2, \ldots, n$, then define $$S_n = \sum_{i=1}^n X_i, \quad T_n = \sum_{i=1}^n X_i^2.$$ We then have, by the linearity of expectation $$\operatorname{E}[S_n] = \sum_{i=1}^n \operatorname{E}[X_i] = \sum_{i=1}^n \mu = n\mu, \\ \operatorname{E}[T_n] = \sum_{i=1}^n \operatorname{E}[X_i^2] = \sum_{i=1}^n (\operatorname{Var}[X_i] + \operatorname{E}[X_i]^2) = \sum_{i=1}^n (\sigma^2 + \mu^2) = n(\sigma^2 + \mu^2).$$
Therefore, $$\frac{\operatorname{E}[T_n] - \operatorname{E}[S_n]}{n} = \sigma^2.$$
Indeed, this calculation does not depend on the distribution of $X_i$ at all: nowhere have I relied on the fact that the observations were normally distributed, only that they are identically distributed with mean $\mu$ and variance $\sigma^2$. I didn't even use the CLT.
Now, in regard to the second question, what we want to do is use the CLT in the large-sample case. So if we calculate the $k^{\rm th}$ raw moment, we have $$\begin{align*} \operatorname{E}[X^k] &= \int_{x=1}^2 x^k \frac{3x^2 + 2x}{10} \, dx = \frac{1}{10} \int_{x=1}^2 3x^{k+2} + 2x^{k+1} \, dx = \frac{1}{10}\left[\frac{3x^{k+3}}{k+3} + \frac{2x^{k+2}}{k+2} \right]_{x=1}^2 \\
&= \frac{1}{10} \left(\frac{3(2^{k+3} - 1)}{k+3} + \frac{2(2^{k+2} - 1)}{k+2} \right). \end{align*}$$ For $k = 1$, this is $$\operatorname{E}[X] = \frac{1}{10} \left(\frac{3(15)}{4} + \frac{2(7)}{3}\right) = \frac{191}{120}.$$ For $k = 2$, this is $$\operatorname{E}[X^2] = \frac{1}{10} \left( \frac{3(31)}{5} + \frac{2(15)}{4} \right) = \frac{261}{100}.$$ Therefore, applying the CLT, the sampling distribution of the sample mean $\bar X$ is approximately normal with mean $\mu$ and variance $\sigma^2/n$, where $\mu = 191/120$ and $$\sigma^2 = \frac{261}{100} - \left(\frac{191}{120}\right)^2 = \frac{1103}{14400}.$$ It follows that $$\Pr[\bar X > 1.6] = \Pr\left[\frac{\bar X - \mu}{\sigma/\sqrt{n}} > \frac{1.6 - 191/120}{\frac{\sqrt{1103/14400}}{150}} \right] \approx \Pr\left[Z > \frac{150}{\sqrt{1103}}\right],$$ where $Z$ is standard normal. The step where we use the approximation is when we claim $(\bar X - \mu)/(\sigma/\sqrt{n})$ is standard normal via the CLT.