The definition of symmetric relation is:
for every $a,b \in X \ (aRb \Leftrightarrow bRa)$.
This means that, for every pair of element $a,b$: either $a,b$ and $b,a$ are $R$-related or neither $a,b$ nor $b,a$ are.
If $aRb \Leftrightarrow bRa$, obviously $aRb \Rightarrow bRa$, and this explain Q4's answer: if $R$ is symm, then $xRy$ implies $yRx$, for every $x,y$.
But the def of symmetry does not mean that every pair $a,b$ must be $R$-related.
This explain why it is not true that $xRy$ and $yRx$.
Consider the trivial example with the symmetric relation: $\text { is brother of }$.
Obviously, if $\text {John is brother of Jim }$, then $\text {Jim is brother of John }$, but this does not mean that every two men in the world are brothers (at least in the "biological" sense...).
In more formal terms, we have that form the definition of symmetry we derive correctly that: $∀x \ ∀y \ (xRy → yRx)$.
From the wrong answer above, insted, we derive: $∀x \ ∀y \ (xRy)$, that is not licensed by the definition of symmetry.