(Problem 13 of Milnor's Topology from the differentiable viewpoint).
Let $M^n,N^m\subset \mathbb{R}^{m+n+1}$ be compact, oriented differential manifolds without boundary of dimension $n$ and $m$.
Consider
$\phi:M^n \times N^m\rightarrow S^{n+m}:(p,q)\mapsto \frac{q-p}{||q-p||}$
and define $l(M,N)=$deg$(\phi)$. I would like to prove $l(M,N)=(-1)^{(m+1)(n+1)}l(N,M)$.
So far I did the following. Define
$\phi_1:M^n \times N^m\rightarrow S^{n+m}:(p,q)\mapsto \frac{q-p}{||q-p||}$
and
$\phi_2:N^m \times M^n\rightarrow S^{n+m}:(q,p)\mapsto -\frac{q-p}{||q-p||}$.
We want deg$(\phi_1)=$deg$(\phi_2)$. Let $z$ be a regular value of $\phi_1$. If I am correct this means that $-z$ is a regular value of $\phi_2$. Moreover $\phi_1^{-1}(z)$ and $\phi_2^{-1}(-z)$ are in one to one correspondence via $(p,q)\mapsto (q,p)$. Therefore we are left to show for each such $(p,q)$:
sgn$(\phi_1,(p,q)) = (-1)^{(m+1)(n+1)}$sgn$(\phi_2,(q,p))$
where sgn$(\phi_1,(p,q))$ is +1 if the derivative map $(d{\phi_1})_{(p,q)}$ preserves orientation and -1 otherwise.
I am stuck proving this last equality. It looks like the antipodal map but theres is some change of coordinates going as well. I think I am messing up working with different orientations. Does anyone know how to proceed? Thank you for your help!