Here is an error-analysis of a nonuniform sampling scheme, which also shows how many samples are needed to ensure an error of at most $\delta>0$.
Main result
Assume data is bounded so that there is a constant $c>0$ such that $|x_i|\leq c$ for all $i \in \{0, 1, 2, ...\}$. Fix $\rho \in [0,1)$. Assume $a \in [0, \rho]$. Fix $\delta>0$. We show that error can be bounded by $\delta$ (for all iterations $t$) using a number of samples $r$ given by:
$$ \boxed{r = \left\lceil \frac{(c/\delta)\rho}{1-\rho}\right\rceil} $$
Discretization
Let $\{a_k\}_{k=0}^{\infty}$ be a sequence such that
$$0=a_0 < a_1 < a_2 < ... < 1 $$
We shall keep exponential averages for $a_0, ..., a_r$, where $\rho\leq a_r<1$. (We can efficiently implement this using the recursive scheme in my first comment above). We shall choose the $a_k$ values appropriately (with nonuniform spacing) to ensure the error is always at most $\delta$, then see how many samples $r$ are needed to ensure $a_r\geq \rho$ (so we can handle the entire interval $[0,\rho]$).
Error for $a \in [a_{k-1}, a_k)$
Suppose $a \in [a_{k-1}, a_k)$ for some $k \in \{1, 2, ...\}$. The error between using weight $a_{k-1}$ and weight $a$ over $t$ iterations is:
\begin{align}
\left|\sum_{i=0}^t a^i x_{t-i} - \sum_{i=0}^t a_{k-1}^i x_{t-i} \right| &=\left|\sum_{i=0}^t (a^i-a_{k-1}^i)x_{t-i}\right| \\
&\leq \sum_{i=0}^t |x_{t-i}|(a^i - a_{k-1}^i) \\
&\leq c\sum_{i=0}^{\infty} (a_k^i - a_{k-1}^i)\\
&= \frac{c}{1-a_k} - \frac{c}{1-a_{k-1}} \\
&= \frac{c(a_k-a_{k-1})}{(1-a_{k-1})(1-a_k)}
\end{align}
Fix $\delta>0$. Knowing $a_{k-1}$, we now choose $a_k >a_{k-1}$ to ensure the error is at most $\delta$. We need:
$$ \frac{c (a_k-a_{k-1})}{(1-a_{k-1})(1-a_k)} = \delta \quad (Eq. 1)$$
So $a_k = a_{k-1} + (\delta/c)(1-a_{k-1})(1-a_k)$. This yields:
$$ a_k = \frac{a_{k-1} + (\delta/c)(1-a_{k-1})}{1+(\delta/c)(1-a_{k-1})}$$
and it holds that $a_{k-1} < a_k < 1$.
Number of samples needed
How many samples $r$ are needed to ensure $a_r\geq \rho$?
Define $z_k = 1-a_k$ for $k \in \{0, 1, 2, ...\}$, so $1=z_0>z_1>z_2>...> 0$. Equation 1 implies:
\begin{align}
&\frac{c(z_{k-1} - z_k)}{z_{k-1}z_k} = \delta \\
&\implies \boxed{z_k = \frac{z_{k-1}}{1+(\delta/c) z_{k-1}} \quad \forall k \in \{0, 1, 2, ...\}}
\end{align}
Claim: The above iteration yields:
$$ z_k = \frac{(c/\delta)}{k + (c/\delta)}\quad , \forall k \in \{0, 1, 2, ...\}$$
Proof: We use induction. It holds for $z_{k-1}$ with $k-1=0$ since $z_0=1$. Suppose it is true for some $k-1\geq 0$. We prove it holds for $k$. Then:
\begin{align}
z_k &= \frac{z_{k-1}}{1 + (\delta/c)z_{k-1}} \\
&= \frac{\frac{(c/\delta)}{k-1+ (c/\delta)}}{1 + \frac{1}{k-1 + (c/\delta)}}\\
&= \frac{c/\delta}{k + (c/\delta)}
\end{align}
$\Box$
So we just use $r$ samples, where $r$ is the smallest integer such that:
\begin{align}
\frac{(c/\delta)}{r + (c/\delta)} \leq 1-\rho
\implies r = \left\lceil \frac{(c/\delta)\rho}{1-\rho}\right\rceil
\end{align}
In view of the above equality for $z_k$, it holds that
$$ \boxed{a_k = 1 - \frac{(c/\delta)}{k + (c/\delta)} \quad, \forall k \in \{0, 1, 2, ...\}} $$