This is more for clarification than anything else, in my text we define:
Definition: We say $x_n = \mathcal{O}(\alpha_n)$ if there are constants $C$ and $n_0$ such that $|x_n| \leq C|\alpha_n|$ when $n \geq n_0$.
Am I right in saying that the ratio $\dfrac{|x_n|}{| \alpha_n |} \leq C$, where $\alpha_n \neq 0$ is bounded as $n\to\infty$ for $x_n = \mathcal{O}(\alpha_n)$ as a necessary condition.
So that if $$\lim_{n\to\infty} \dfrac{ |x_n|}{|\alpha_n|} = \infty$$ then $x_n \neq \mathcal{O}(\alpha_n)$.