Take $f,g\in S_n$, the symmetric group on a set $X$ of size $n$. Define the function $$d(f, g) = n - |\{x\in X : f(x) = g(x)\}|$$
In words, this defines a distance on permutations by how many inputs they map to the same output. This is kind of a measure of how much of $X$ the permutations "agree" on.
Is this a metric on $S_n$? I suspect the answer is no but I haven't come up with a counterexample. It's clearly reflexive and symmetric, but proving or disproving the triangle inequality is stumping me.